
I have just come back from a 7 day vacation with my sister and her family in Orlando, FL. They are the only reason I would visit that state again. It was so nice to be around family! However, it was truly a cultural shock! Here in SF we live in a bubble. Just being in Florida and getting bombarded by US patriotism was enough to realize how much of a refuge SF has been for me. I also realized how I have almost lost the ability to debate my political views. In SF am surrounded by like-minded “progressive” people, so debating about whether the war should end, or whether we are responsible for the climate crisis we face, or whether gay people choose or not to be gay is out of the question. I just find it absurd to even entertain such ideas.
According to what I saw and to my sister’s stories of the girls’ experiences in school and in their soccer team, that place seems to be flooded with racist people. I was glad to see how my sister and her husband are raising their kids to cope with all that bullshit! That racist bullshit does not exist in Puerto Rico or at least it is not based on HATE. Like Puerto Rican/Newyorrican poet Pedro Pietri beautifully puts it [for a Puerto Rican] “to be called negrito means to be called LOVE.”